The two teenagers were living on their own. Their mother had been jailed after the rioting in London last summer. Her sons, aged 16 and 17, were living in the family home without an adult. No-one had thought to inform the authorities.<\/p>\n
\u201cThey were in a pretty poor state,\u201d says Nikki Bradley, who manages the Family Interventions\u00a0service at Tower Hamlets in the east end of London. \u201cThey only had one pair of trainers between them so they used to take turns to wear them, going to college in them on alternate days.\u201d<\/p>\n
When a woman is sent to prison it is not just she who is punished. The children of prisoners \u2013 who have done no wrong, whatever crime their mother may have committed \u2013 are punished too. But little account is generally taken of their needs. They are the invisible victims of both their parent\u2019s crime and the penal system.<\/p>\n
According to the most recent figures around 200,000 children each year suffer from the loss of a parent in prison \u2013 far more than are separated through divorce. When mothers are jailed only nine per cent have fathers who step forward to take care of them. That means that 17,000 children a year are left effectively parentless. They are the hidden victims of a system in which the number of women jailed has doubled in the last 15 years.<\/p>\n
\u201cPrison is needlessly cruel in the harm it does to children,\u201d says Juliet Lyon, director of the Prison Reform Trust.<\/p>\n
The problems begin almost from birth. In the first six to nine months of life a mother and baby bond in a process which psychologists call attachment. \u201cIf the quality of that relationship is impaired it can damage the way a child develops, emotionally and socially, and impair its ability to form normal relationships throughout its life,\u201d says Tessa\u00a0Baradon, Head of the Parent Infant Project at the Anna Freud psychotherapeutic centre who devised the parenting course currently used in a number of women\u2019s prisons.<\/p>\n
The extent of the disruption is significant. For eight out of ten children when their mother goes to prison it is the first time they have been separated from her for more than a day or so. Half of the babies who are taken into care when their mothers go to prison are moved from one carer to another two, three or even four times.<\/p>\n
Babies who suffer poor attachment with their mothers are more likely to be involved in crime as adolescents, according to a report by the Children\u2019s Commissioner for England. There is also an increased likelihood of the child having learning difficulties or developing personality problems or other psychiatric disorders in childhood and adult life.<\/p>\n
The Prison Service attempts to address this through the Mother and Baby Units it runs in 8 of its 13 women\u2019s prisons. \u201cWe support the mothers in developing their confidence as mothers and their attachment with their babies and older children,\u201d says Karen Moorcroft of the charity Action for Children which runs the units inside both Styal prison in Cheshire and New Hall in West Yorkshire.\u00a0 \u201cEach mother has a key worker who supports her with regular one-to-one work and group work sessions that\u00a0help her develop skills in\u00a0everything from\u00a0basic care needs of her baby, budgeting and finance, preparing for release with housing or access to\u00a0community support and exploring the impact of her offending behaviour for her children.\u201d<\/p>\n
Several prisons have run a New Beginnings programme devised by Tessa\u00a0Baradon of the Anna Freud centre, though funding for the work was axed by the Ministry of Justice last year. \u201cIf you work with the baby in parallel with the mother,\u201d she explains, \u201cyou can actually influence the baby\u2019s development directly in such a way that it helps the mother. So rather than giving the mother treatment for depression and then waiting for the depression (to lift to the point where they are able to care for their children) you work with the baby and the mother together. So the baby has the experience of an adult attending to them, and the mother has the example of how the therapist behaves with the child.\u201d<\/p>\n
Many of these mothers have an idealised image of what their baby will be like. They think they will give it a perfect love, which it will return to them, in the midst of the highly chaotic and decidedly imperfect lives they are leading. \u201cThe programme works directly with the baby\u2019s attachment needs and capacities,\u201d says Tessa Baradon, \u201cmirroring emotional states, verbalising experiences and anxieties that are seen or assumed in the baby, and creating connectedness through play.\u201d<\/p>\n
The aim is to make the mothers more aware of the needs of the baby as separate from their own. It promotes what the psychotherapist calls \u201ca shift towards understanding the baby as a person with a separate, and therefore different, mind\u201d.<\/p>\n
Yet such units only allow children to be cared for by imprisoned mothers until the child is around 18 months old. Child development experts suggest that children can become institutionalised if they remain much longer. \u201cWe had one child who came back from a visit to relatives who would try to run away when she saw the prison gate,\u201d says Karen Moorcroft. \u201cAnother got to the point that whenever she saw a door out on a visit she wouldn\u2019t push it but would stop and wait for someone to produce a key as though she thought all doors were locked. The prison environment had begun to affect her.\u201d<\/p>\n
It is important to recognise that there is rarely a perfect solution, says a Prison Service policy document which concludes: \u201cIt is commonly a matter of finding the least bad option for the child and in each case the solution depends on its individual circumstances.\u201d<\/p>\n
Alison Phillips of the charity Babies in Prison \u2013 which funded the sensory play room in Holloway prison, provides equipment and day trips to the units and spreads good ideas and practice from one prison to another \u2013 agrees. \u201cMother and Baby Units,\u201d she says, \u201care in our view the least worst option.\u201d And there are places for just 80 mothers in total.<\/strong><\/p>\n Around 6,000 of the children affected by the imprisonment of their mother are under five years old, according to figures from the Howard League for Penal reform. (There are no official statistics). Around another 7,000 are between the ages of five and ten. They have to deal with an array of problems which take a wide-ranging toll.<\/p>\n Some have to deal with the trauma of seeing their mother arrested. All have to cope with being deprived of their mother\u2019s day-to-day love. They almost always have to leave their home and often their school. Many are separated from their brothers and sisters. Statistics show they live in homes with lower incomes than before and often with higher levels of stress. They suffer shame and stigma, being teased and bullied at school. They truant more than other children and achieve less in education.<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/em>A study by Dr Joseph Murray of Cambridge University\u2019s Psychiatry Department found that they are three times more likely to exhibit antisocial behaviour, ranging from persistent lying and deceit to criminal behaviour. Individuals were affected right through to 48 years old. Nearly two thirds of boys who have a parent in prison will go on to commit some kind of crime themselves.<\/em><\/p>\n It begins with mood changes, hyperactivity, and what Deirdre King, author of Parents, Children and Prison: Effects of parental imprisonment on children,<\/em> calls \u201cacting up\u201d with their carers in their parents\u2019 absence. Others, she says, become \u201cvery clingy\u201d. The children worry about their imprisoned parent. \u201cDo you get beat up?\u201d one boy asked his mother on a visit. They worry about the visits, which are usually not child-friendly, and where they can often be shy or awkward with their own mother.\u00a0 They worry about their other parent. They worry about keeping their mother\u2019s incarceration secret from friends and neighbours.<\/p>\n \u201cThey are often ashamed,\u201d says Sarah Salmon of the charity Action for Prisoners\u2019 Families \u201cThey won\u2019t tell their school or friends where their Mum is. They just make up excuses when she doesn\u2019t turn up for parents evening\u201d That enforced silence about their situation deprives them of support which might otherwise be forthcoming from school or the local council.<\/p>\n Their confusion can be exacerbated by the lies their mothers tell them. \u201cSome mothers don\u2019t tell their children they are in jail,\u201d she adds. \u201cThey say they are in hospital, or working away. One woman was horrified when she was transferred from one prison to another to find that where the first had said HMP outside the second said HM Prison. She was terrified that her kids would rumble her. In many cases the child knows but colludes with the pretence.\u201d<\/p>\n Later years throw up new problems. \u201cMy daughter Gwyneth started her periods last week,\u201d says Susan, who is halfway through a two year sentence for arson in Eastwood Prison. \u201cI had a talk with her about it before I came in. But it\u2019s hard for her not having her Mum around at that time. She\u2019s 12 and just starting comprehensive.\u201d<\/p>\n Her son Bryn is nine. \u201cHe\u2019s been teased at school with the other kids asking him: \u2018What do you have for breakfast? Porridge like your mother\u2019 though a couple have said: \u2018Your Mam\u2019s a gangster, that\u2019s so cool. He\u2019s had huge hair loss because of stress and he\u2019s not gaining weight. The school have had to give him a counsellor.\u201d<\/p>\n Teenagers, who might be supposed to be more self-sufficient, are thought by many charities to be particular vulnerable to separation from a parent due to imprisonment.<\/p>\n Many children become withdrawn. Some suffer depression. Children who have a parent in prison are three times as likely to suffer from mental health problems as other kids. So many children are deeply affected by their mother\u2019s imprisonment during these formative periods of their life that Baroness Jean Corston, who wrote a key report into vulnerable women in the criminal justice system five years ago, has described the impact of mothers\u2019 imprisonment on their children as \u201coften nothing short of catastrophic\u201d.<\/p>\n Not all of the problems in these children\u2019s life can be put down to their mother\u2019s imprisonment. They were often already suffering considerable disadvantage because of their mother\u2019s behaviour before she went to jail. Women prisoners usually come from backgrounds where they themselves have been neglected or abused. Many have been in care. Most have not done well at school. They have fewer skills and higher unemployment than women in general. They have difficulties with relationships, drug and alcohol abuse and multiple mental health problems. All this has often marred the lives of their children.<\/p>\n \u201cSixty per cent of women in custody have children under 18,\u201d says Debra Baldwin, the Ministry of Justice senior civil servant in charge of policy on women\u2019s prisons.<\/p>\n \u201c But two-thirds of them didn\u2019t have their kids living with them when they went into prison. These women have very damaging and chaotic lifestyles in terms of drink and alcohol use. They often come in as quite chaotic drug users very poor in terms of both mental and physical health. They can be very damaged and also very damaging. So it\u2019s a real mixed picture.\u201d<\/p>\n Even so prison appears to be a decisive adverse factor. At Cambridge Dr Joseph Murray says: \u201cThe evidence does seem to point to the fact that kids whose parents go to prison do worse than those who have committed a crime, gone to court and got a non-custodial sentence. The evidence points towards it being the imprisonment rather than the conviction.\u201d<\/p>\n For some children, of course, prison can be a good thing. \u201cFor some families the mother going into prison is a relief because she has been causing merry hell,\u201d admits Sarah Salmon of Action for Prisoners\u2019 Families. \u201cAt least in prison she\u2019s safe and not bringing people into the house who are putting the kids at risk.\u201d<\/p>\n Prison can have a beneficial effect for mothers too. \u201cFor some women prison can be a safe haven,\u201d says the child development expert Tessa Baradon. \u201cThe very aspects of the regime of the prison which brings huge resistance from prisoners \u2013 the rules, the regularity of food being provided, no drugs, no domestic violence etc \u2013 can have hugely positive results in the attachment between mothers and babies. They have regular medical appointments. From the baby\u2019s point of view there is a measure or predictability that might have been absent from the previously chaotic life of the mother.\u201d<\/p>\n But however bad a mother has been,\u201d she adds, \u201cit is rare that a child will feel more relief than loss when their mother goes to prison.\u201d<\/p>\n A number of changes could be made to reduce the stress on children. A more systematic programme of support could be put in place for the children of prisoners. At present unless a child is already known to school or social services as \u201cat risk\u201d no mechanism exists for informing those authorities that a parent is in prison. An audit\u00a0 by the children\u2019s charity Barnardo\u2019s of 208 local authorities and health boards across the UK revealed that only 20 showed any awareness of the needs of the children in their strategic plans.<\/p>\n Courts could shower greater awareness of the needs of children when passing sentence on mothers. The charity Partners of Prisoners and Families Support Group wants the introduction of a formal procedure to require courts to establish the existence and whereabouts of offenders\u2019 children before sentencing. The campaigning barrister Helena Kennedy QC wants to go further and impose a duty on a judge or magistrate to order a pre-sentencing report on the impact custody would have on the children of the family. \u201cGood probation officers already include that but it should be a statutory requirement,\u201d she says. The Scottish Children\u2019s Commissioner has demanded that children be given an opportunity to express their views about the adults who will care for them in their parent\u2019s absence.<\/p>\n Above all there is a need to ask why Britain is now sending so many more women to prison \u2013 and whether there are not punishments in the community which would be more effective and fairer to these children who get a bad deal from our criminal justice system \u2013 and through no fault of their own.<\/p>\n \u201cWhenever mother is taken away from her child we punish the child as well as the mother,\u201d says Sheila Kitzinger, the childbirth activist who two decades ago campaigned successfully to have handcuffs removed from women prisoners as they gave birth in NHS hospitals. \u201cThat is particularly true of babies who are the most vulnerable members of society. To penalise them for a crime the mother has committed is an abuse of adult power.\u00a0 The mothers of small children should not be in jail at all, except in the most extreme circumstances.\u201d<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n \n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" The two teenagers were living on their own. Their mother had been jailed after the rioting in London last summer. Her sons, aged 16 and 17, were living in the family home without an adult. 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Introductory comment: The hidden victims of a \u2018lock them up\u2019 culture <\/a><\/h1>\n
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Part 1: \u00a0Babies behind bars <\/a><\/h1>\n
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Part 2: \u00a0The 17,000 children separated from their Mums <\/a><\/h1>\n
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Part 3: The grandmothers left holding the baby and bringing up the children <\/a><\/h1>\n
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Part 4: The devastating hidden toll on children \u00a0<\/a><\/h1>\n
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Part 5: More effective alternatives to custody <\/a><\/h1>\n
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Part 6: The changes that are needed<\/a><\/h1>\n
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Final comment: We risk creating the felons of the future<\/a><\/h1>\n